Our beautiful daughter Jessica was born in September 2011 with a severe heart defect called hypoplastic left heart syndrome. This was diagnosed at her 20 week scan and we were initially told that she was unlikely to be suitable for surgery. However, a pioneering in-utero operation at 28 weeks to enlarge a hole in her atrial septum was carried out and she was able to make it to term and get through her first open-heart surgery at just eight hours old. Jessica underwent five more surgeries during her life. Her final surgery - the Fontan procedure - took place in December 2017. She initially made a good recovery but sadly passed away suddenly on 14th April 2018 at the age of 6. This is the story of a little girl whose half a heart overflowed with love. She was, and will forever be, our little miracle and brought joy to all who knew her.

Sunday 13 May 2012

Back home, one week on


We have now been home a week and have started to settle back into a normal routine once again.  Within 48 hours of coming home, the feeding tube was accidentally pulled out (by Louise rather than Jessica though) and we thought we’d see how Jessica got on overnight as she was taking the bottle reasonably well.  Unfortunately, she would only take a two-hourly amount which meant for a very unsettled night for everyone before the community nurse came and replaced the tube again in the morning.

We had a routine check-up at Oxford on Friday afternoon and had an echo which showed good heart function and Jessica’s saturation levels have also been good.  However, when we arrived home from our appointment, we discovered that Jessica had pulled her feeding tube out on the journey home and so we had to take a trip to Wexham Park hospital to have the tube put back in once again!  Hopefully once she no longer needs to be on Monogen, she will take enough milk not to need the tube and we won’t keep having to replace it!  On the plus side, she is gaining weight well and is now up to 5690g (12lb 8oz).


It has been quite a sociable week with Jessica attending two birthday meals (one for Mummy’s birthday last Wednesday and then again today for our friend Sarah’s birthday) and being back at baby groups once again.  There is now a more noticeable difference between Jessica and other babies her age, particularly with regard to motor skills such as rolling, sitting and crawling which isn’t too surprising given her time in hospital and we have been reassured that she should catch up soon.


Overall, she is doing incredibly well and is as happy and smiley as ever.  It is exactly a year today since our appointment at Great Ormond Street Hospital where we were told that Jessica was unlikely to be suitable for surgery and was likely to only survive for a few hours, and we sat in the hospital chapel praying desperately for a miracle.  Now we have a beautiful eight-month old daughter who has survived several operations and brings us so much joy and we thank God every day for giving us the miracle we prayed for and blessing us with our little girl.  God is truly awesome!


3 comments:

  1. Jessica is so, so, so, soooo amazing. What a beautiful girl and a genuine miracle in this life we live. Love you all xx xx

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  2. So pleased to hear that things are looking positive and stable.

    I'm also so sorry for having no idea it was your birthday, Louise!

    Neil xx

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  3. Wonderful to read how well you are all doing.

    I'm sure Jessica will catch up with her peers before too long. Even though you know why there may be a difference (hospital visits, tubes etc) it can be incredibly hard to try to smile while you watch everyone's babies rolling/crawling etc.

    My little boy (no hospital visits excuses at all) didn't crawl til 11 months old, he just spent most of his time from 9-11 months sitting! Obviously content to watch. Another baby I know crawled at 14 months but walked a month or so later.

    Hang in there - they all do things in their own time ... however infuriating I find it I try not to focus on it too much.

    xx

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